Learning to be more responsible. It comes slowly with time. Not something a procrastinator can 'dive into'
learning to be responsible takes a lifetime--it takes a lot of experience and observation--in the meantime, we use our best judgment
a friend suggests this question when i'm in a quandary --"I wonder, what course is in my highest and best good?"
The "I wonder" portion of the question is essential--it kicks the question out of the logical brain into the subconscious where the best "thinking" takes place--trying to consciously analyze something, just jams up the process
ask the "I wonder" question and then put the issue on a box in the closet of your mind and let the subconscious go after it, then follow your gut.